8 Sex Workers Share Their Beauty & Wellness Routines
I always vet the person I’m working with—whether that’s looking to see who they have worked with, talking to other creators who know them, or meeting for a quick hang …
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Sex-Positive Lifestyle Cruises Aren’t Just for Swingers Anymore
O’Reilly goes on to explain the importance of differentiating between identity and behavior, meaning that while some people play (a term commonly used in the lifestyle community that refers to …
We Should All Try Having More Mirror Sex
We both enjoy multiple positions, but when I can’t directly look him in the eyes in some positions, I’m curious about whether he actually likes it or not! I decided …
What Living With Vaginismus Is Really Like
Welcome to Doing It, a column where sex educator Varuna Srinivasan explores the deep connections between sex and emotions. This month, they speak with experts and people living with vaginismus …
How My Partner and I Have Sex in Public
Welcome to Doing It, a column where sex educator Varuna Srinivasan explores the deep connections between sex and emotions. This month, they speak with experts and people who have sex …
What Exactly Is a Polycule Anyway?
Before jumping into a polycule, Leanna Yau, a polyamory educator, recommends that previously-monogamous couples try polyamory that doesn’t involve cohabitation first. “If you both are open to dating other people, …
Why Women Like Dirty Talk
Welcome to Doing It, a column where sex educator Varuna Srinivasan explores the deep connections between sex and emotions. This month, they dive into why so many women get turned …
3 Types of Sex Anxiety and How to Cope With Them
There is another type of dysphoria called post-coital dysphoria, which clinical psychologists categorize as a female functional disorder, where the person experiences negative emotions characterized by crying, sense of melancholy, …
How I Deal With Having Low Libido
I often felt incomplete. I still feel that way at some level — though I’m trying to rid myself of this thought process — despite years of research and advocacy …
What Having Sex After Menopause Is Really Like
Tina, a 33-year-old techie from San Francisco, Tina is currently experiencing artificial menopause, a byproduct of a complete double cystectomy as part of treatment for her stage 3/4 endometriosis. The …